Hi gang!
At the time of writing I couldn't be happier... I have a really rough week behind me: temperatures went sky high up to 40 degrees Celsius peeks! Given the fact that we're in a pretty wet area with rivers and such all around... the humidity is the real killer. Well, that and the fact that this crap happens "just like that". One day it's 25 tops, 15 - 20 nights. The next 40 tops with 25 - 30 during the night.
But... things are getting better. Even more so because my gf hopped over for the full weekend (we decided to keep things short last week).
And on that record I want to specifically thank the Renderotica staff once again, but in public this time, for looking after us product testers in the way they do. If you ever fancied the idea of testing naughty stuff and getting a preview into what might be coming? Maybe consider contacting them? Just shoot Rabbit a PM, who knows... BUT => for the record... while there are some perks attached (obviously) at the same time commitment is also expected.
Sexting?
So.. I know I haven't been around in public much, but trust me... Renderotica never left my sights. I've been quite active "behind the scenes" like the rest of my fellow testers (love you guys!!) and on that note I just have to go "offtopic" one more time (sorry!!)...
I am SUPER PROUD to say that none other than Clacy Darch is on both Renderotica (mad respect!) as well as CGBytes => lookie, lookie!
FACT: I've been involved in testing their products several times now and there's a darn good reason why I'm doing what I do right now.. this stuff.. is amazing. Not perfect though.. I mean.. when I'm confronted with a locker hallway I kinda expect lockers to open. Thing is: they easily make up for things like that in other ways. The attention to details - in my opinion - is just frickin' awesome.
I'm pretty sure that Clacy never kept my next idea in mind (so I assume) but ... uhm.. that coworker space can easily be used in "other" ways... why not have your female coworker strip down and lie on the table? no, no... for team bonding and "science purposes" obviously!! :P
Good vibes only!
I'm dead serious here... yes, I'm poking a bit of fun too, but these environments.. are special.
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Sexting = STUPID!!!
So... I've been dating my gf for over 10 years now. The jist is basically that we both love the place we're living in, we also care deeply about each other but... we both also value our freedom. SO we started dating and these days one of us always goes out to the other to spend the weekend. And sure: sometimes something in between too.
When my gf is taking a shower I'm often still tempted to, well, go in because.. well, I need to shave of course :) For over 5 years now my/our summer "officially" started when my gf decided to slip into a bikini and enjoy the sun on my balcony. And you betcha that I'm peeking at first!
And for the record? This is the hard part so to speak (some pun intended) but even after 10 years into our relationship she can still get to me "down there" as well.
What does this have to do with sexting you wonder?
SO... how special is it to see more of your spouse when you can just pull up a noodie any time you'd like? How hard do you think you're going to get if you, ahem, "used your digital assets" already to get some "results"?
Naughty things won't be too special anymore if you keep on using or seeing 'm.
Crap like sexting is only fun for a short term, and because of that... sorry: IMO you're just being stupid if you take that route because you're giving into something and in doing so denying yourself so much more pleasure.
Honesty over sexting!
So, like, why would you even want to go here I wonder? Could it be that you really enjoy the sight of a female body and thus try to rope your spouse into this? Seriously, I get that part, but ... why not just be honest about the real issue at hand: you can enjoy the sight of other women, but... that doesn't imply that you don't love your spouse anymore or don't find her attractive. It's just that you sometimes, well.. enjoy a bit of dare I say "naughty eye candy"?
I'm not saying that this is gonna be easy, I'm even worried about what I'm writing now because I can well imagine that it might even wreck a relationship (esp. if you never been very honest between yourselves).
But there's a darn good reason why the awesome Misty Mundea doesn't have much effect on me in some of her highly arousing movies. Or why the 'bed scene' in the "Embrace of a Vampite" movie doesn't even tingle anymore.
Yet when she tells me that she's going to freshen up and take a shower and "feel free to join me if you'd like" then it still sends some "special chills" down into me.
I truly believe that the main reason for that is because.. we don't have noodies of one another, we don't do sexting and most of all... we're being honest between ourselfs.
If you enjoy erotics at times, why not admit?
I don't want to "hide" between lame tech stats but it's a fact that men think way more about sex and erotics and what not than women. I love my girlfriend, she means everything to me, but at the same time... have you checked out the Renderotica main page yet? no, no, no... no more commercials but have you seen the silver bikini girl Fina? By Rizal3D? Learn more here? ;) unfortunately no bikini shots on the actual product page (which IMO only makes it more honest!).
But damn, she's hot!
Fun fact: gf is sitting right next to me while I'm writing all this up, while I'm going back and forth between said main page and she even agreed that the girl looks nice. Also told me not to share a direct link to the picture because the staff may not like that.
She ALSO gave me some awesome suggestions on a render which is baking right now at the time of writing, in the background. Soon shared! I have several erotic fantasies, one of which being a guy fully dressed while being with a girl who's fully / mostly naked. That's coming up. So then my gf chimed in: leave her socks on! And I'm like, HUH?! => "You're a horny bastard, so you got her out cold, you rip off her shirt, you pull down her pants and undies.. but can you still be bothered with her socks at this time? While there's b00bs and a pussy to enjoy?"
I would honestly, and seriously, never have come up with that nasty bit of detail.
And here we are, soon to be shared.
Fuck sexting, enjoy the real deal instead!!
Seriously.. why even go here? As a girl you only risk your most intimate moments getting shared by others. Even if your hubby didn't mean to: hacks and scams are still a thing. Must be a good feel hearing your hubby tell you how his phone got breached while he still kept several n00dies of you in there.
Why can't men be allowed to look at other women?
Before I met my gf I was already heavy into Asian erotics. Hentai and what not did that to me, even now I think that the live action movies of "La Blue Girl" are hot as heck, yet at the same time also utterly overdone. Kaori Nakatani. No, not related to previous movies but she was an Asian adult actress and ditto model. I had a ton of pics and some movies of her.
So when my gf and me got more serious.. I fessed up. Tha HECK I did! No.. this didn't click too well at first, it was helluva difficult. She loved me, but also started wondering if she might not be "enough" for me? And if I go "after" virtual women like that.. then.. what's stopping me from other real women?
She was just as honest with me regarding her concents as I was with her. And instead of shooting things down we explored the whole issue together.
I thought some of her concerns were ridiculous, honest. I would never want to bother with another woman. Not even if she would have shot me down regarding my erotics. Just like she thought I was being ridiculous by telling her that a peek at Kaori (nude) at times really could help my overall mood.
This mutual respect and acceptance didn't come easy mind you!
But it sure as heck brought us WAY more closer together than just thinking about sexting and what not.
Sorry but : trying to get n00dies of your gf is you denying the real issue at hand and even worse: trying to take the easy way out.
^ That is truly what I believe.
And it will only hury you in the longer run.
IN CONCLUSION
OMG.. what a rollercoaster.. this post wasn't fully planned: just the sexting part. My / OUR (!) render is still baking; 50% done. Soon... I'm combining Davo with Mr.Pervic and I'll also sprinkle a little Clacy awesomeness on top.
Yes: with socks! :P
(and beer!)
Coming soon to a Renderotica near you: A gamers dirty fantasy...
Thank you for reading! Hope you enjoyed.