Howdy!
So first of all I'd like to share my deep appreciation for this website and it's awesome community! I've been a member of the website for quite a while but only somewhat recently did I become more active.
What can I say... I think it's awesome that we got a place here to explore, share, admire and even expand on our own personal sexual and/or erotic fantasies. From soft core material like female or male pinups to plain out brutal stuff, it's all here and we all get to decide what want or don't want to see.
I'm well aware that there's a commercial aspect involved here, but you cannot deny the fact that even if you don't buy anything here you'll still be able to explore your own fantasies in the galleries or to share some fantasies of your own. I'm really loving it!
Sorry, had to be said! 😎
Secrecy is an important thing. You obviously don't want to share all your erotic fantasies with the world because not everyone would be in appreciation of that. While some people, such as myself, really enjoy both anime and the erotic anime ("hentai") there are also plenty who loathe the genre.
And of course there's also this thing about erotics being a bit of a taboo subject. Some people simply don't uphold the moral values which they sometimes claim to have. I still remember a huge uproar in the "Drupal" community (Drupal being an open-source CMS system) when word got out that one of their key developers was into BDSM. He never shared this with anyone, it was simply his own private thingie, but some vile <self-censored> thought it necessary to share his (private!) profile from a BDSM website with the Drupal administration. And suddenly... The Drupal administration, from their self-proclaimed "full inclusive community", spat him out.
Which brings me to my question.... have you ever shared your fantasies with someone else?
As for me... I consider myself lucky and very, very, fortunate. I have a girlfriend, we've been dating for over 10 years now. Before I was active here I was pretty active within the *delete* community, in specific I was very fond (still am!) of their sex game "Hentai3D". I made and shared screenshots and poses and such. And because this software had been a very important part of my life I eventually decided that I wasn't going to keep this a secret from my gf. I have my erotic fantasies from time to time and I can satisfy those through 3D.
Well... it was a somewhat uncomfortable talk at first but she was actually very happy that I trusted her with knowing all that and also that I satisfied my erotic fantasies with virtual fantasy women instead of drooling over real ones.
So yeah... I basically don't have to hide my stuff, and I don't. That's not saying she agrees with everything of course, there are definitely renders of mine which she doesn't like but we can both accept the fact that ... different people, different fantasies. And respect that.
So... I got curious, have you ever shared your 'dark' secrets with with someone close to you?
Once again: I do urge you not to respond if you don't feel comfortable with that, I can well imagine that not everyone wants to talk about this.
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