Renderotica

Going by the images you uploaded, via the second link you installed Pumping Pole Palette, which is a texture expansion for Dicktator. So you will need Dicktator for it to work.

When Advanced Pussy is first loaded onto G8F it will have a gray look as it hasn't been assigned textures yet. (Unless is it loading in as gray boxes, if that is the case then you have an issue with the Geometry not loading correctly, I can't say for sure as the first image link is loading the Advanced Pussy product page) The way a lot of the grafts work the textures are assigned when you use a Material Copy Script, that pulls the files used for torso or body in most cases, and copies them to the graft surfaces. So loading most grafts there is going to be a three or four step process.

1) Load graft on figure

2) Run material copy

3) Load Geoshell

4) Add shell texture (A lot of shells load with a basic texture so this step is not always required, unless you want to use alternate shell textures like Pumping Pole Palette, or Pussy Wizard)

(There is sometimes an additional step if using multiple shells/grafts on the figure you'll need to run a shell fix script. By selecting each shell and running the shell fix on it. Basically the issue is when grafts load, the graft surfaces are added to the shell, problem is each graft loaded in means that grafts surfaces gets added to the shell, and extra surfaces not assigned materials in Daz Studio by default are set to white, so you'll end up with white shell surfaces where the other grafts surfaces are loaded onto the shell.)